A woman had been seeing her boyfriend for several months when she began noticing the same uncomfortable pattern every time they went out to eat.
As the weeks passed, the repeated situation wore her down, and eventually she chose to respond in a way that reflected how she truly felt. The 32-year-old had been dating her 39-year-old partner for nine months. He had two young children, and tension built after a serious argument sparked by his ongoing behavior.

Unsure whether she had handled things correctly, she turned to Reddit for advice. She especially worried about the fact that her reaction happened in front of his children, which led him to accuse her of being selfish and inconsiderate. According to her post, her boyfriend’s kids loved going out to restaurants, so they made it a weekly habit. However, she noticed that almost every time, he somehow “forgot” his wallet at home.

Whenever that happened, she ended up covering the bill. At first, she brushed it off. But after paying for several dinners in one month, she began feeling financially strained.
One evening, right after receiving her paycheck from a part-time job, she prepared to join him and the kids for dinner again. Anticipating another “forgotten wallet” situation, she texted him beforehand, reminding him not to leave it behind. He laughed it off and didn’t take her message seriously.

At the restaurant, the children eagerly ordered several new items from the menu — none of them inexpensive, according to her. Before the food arrived, she asked him directly if he had brought his wallet this time. He looked startled and began patting his pockets. After checking for a moment, he gave her an embarrassed look and admitted, “I think I left it in the other jeans I was going to wear.” He then asked her to cover the meal again. That was the breaking point.She quietly gathered her belongings and stood up, deciding she would not stay or pay. When he demanded to know what she was doing, she calmly told him she was no longer willing to foot the bill for him and his children every time they dined out. Then she left.

Later, he called her, angry and accu:sing her of abandoning them.
She responded that it wasn’t fair for her to constantly pay for everyone, and she wouldn’t continue doing so. He raised his voice, insisting it was simply a forgotten wallet and accusing her of lacking compassion. He claimed he had to cancel his order and take the kids home without dinner because he didn’t have money to pay.

The argument intensified. He told her she needed to rethink how she treated “his children,” accusing her of being so selfish she could leave them hungry. When she shared her story online, commenters quickly sided with her. Many felt the boyfriend’s behavior was intentional and manipulative. One user wrote, “He’s been using you for nine months to pay for him and his kids. It’s not your fault, but you need to reconsider this relationship.” Another added, “You’re not his girlfriend — you’re his credit card. Stop letting him take advantage of you.” Someone else pointed out, “Forgetting once might be an accident. Twice might be coincidence. But dozens of times? That’s a pattern. If it were truly a mistake, he’d pay you back.” A final blunt comment read, “This isn’t on you. He’s draining you financially and emotionally. You deserve better — walk away now.” READ MORE BELOW